The simple fact, as philosopher Albert Bormann reminds us, is ‘that people regularly make choices that are counterproductive to the happiness they want’…
Something’s not working. ‘Labor-saving’ devices make us busier. The faster computers go, the more time we give to them. As highways and cars improve, we drive farther and vehicles become increasingly expensive. Email speeds up communications but eats up greater amounts of time. With the ongoing invention of ‘essential’ devices (even energy-efficient ones), we consume growing quantities of power. I don’t know about your house, but we have power strips in numerous rooms; wall outlets no longer suffice…
Gregg Easterbrook convincingly shows that ‘society is undergoing a fundamental shift from ‘material want’ to ‘meaning want,’ with ever larger numbers of people reasonably secure in terms of living standards, but feeling they lack significance in their lives.
-Arthur Boers, Living Into Focus, pp. xvii, xix, xxi
Brian put these quotes together. “Something’s not working” is right.
I often quote Martyn Lloyd-Jones (who was quoting someone else), who often said that ‘every institution tends to produce its opposite.’
Boers is not talking about institutions per se. He is talking about people and their devices. But people and devices do tend to produce the opposite of what they intend. This is a theme that Boers will return to, and I am sure we will as well. Here’s an example:
Communication devices were supposed to bring us closer to family by allowing us to work at home; instead, they often detract from time and attention for spouses and children. Computers and cybercommunication were going to help us become paperless, but we consume growing quantities of paper…While computers and online connections get faster, the time we spend on them keeps going up. The better we are at responding to email, the more we are inundated by it. While it gets easier to assemble meals and food becomes convenient, our society shows greater problems with obesity (p. 70).
This is the case in virtually every realm of life. Sin has so turned things upside down that we often get the opposite of what we want. The question, then, becomes, how do we respond to this fact? My only answer is that we must be constantly checking and re-checking; constantly taking inventory. I think that many modern folk understand this. That’s why ‘vision’ and ‘goals’ and ‘instructional design’ have become so firmly entrenched in our vocabularies. But we are not talking about business models here. We are talking about life.
But, as I run the risk of sounding like I want to professionalize life, I think it is absolutely essential that we question our motives in virtually everything. Why do I need the new iPhone? Why do I need to get fast food today? Why do I need to check my email right now? If the answer is simply ‘to save time,’ then we need to ask ourselves if we are really saving time; and if we are, where is that time going? Is my ‘save time’ going into other actions that are also done for the sake of saving time? Am I so busy saving time that I don’t actually have any time left? Has my ‘saving time’ actually become its opposite?
So, here’s my bottom line: take the time to ask yourself what the opposite of your goal or purpose is, ask yourself how your pursuit of that purpose could lead to that opposite, and take inventory regularly to see if you are veering toward that opposite.
Reminds me of “For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.” Matthew 16:25
What is your take on video games like Xbox and PlayStation?
I don’t have a problem with video games in and of themselves. I would say that in some sense they are not different than watching TV. If you want to play games in your spare time, I wouldn’t have a problem with it.
The main thing – and I know you know this – is that some games have content that is problematic (morally speaking) and it can also be very time consuming.
As with most things, I would say that moderation is the key. If you can get by without playing – then don’t play. But don’t feel like God is going to be angry with you if you play games from time to time. So long as you are not violating God’s Law, (as Augustine says) Delight in the Lord and do as you please.
Let me say a couple more things just to keep you thinking:
1) if your conscience is uneasy about a game, don’t play it.
2) ask yourself why you’re playing. If it’s simply for entertainment, then ask yourself what the opposite of entertainment is; then make sure you don’t head that direction. I don’t want to come across as if I’m saying, “Go play video games!” That’s not my point. My point is that I think they are permissible, not that we should necessarily encourage them.
Austin,
I keep thinking of things to say. Do you remember reading C.S. Lewis (he said it in so many different places) say something to the effect that anything that gets our minds off ourselves is good? Anything we truly enjoy can aid us on the road to self-forgetfulness, which is a part of humility.
Do video games do that for you? That’s another question I’d ask. Or put it this way: do they make you more self-centered or less, more selfish or less, more self-mindful or less?
Thanks for the comments. I’m able to go without them and do well with other forms of entertainment which in fact are more productive in more than one sense. Reading, exercising and writing are all entertainments or at least can
be.
The opposite of entertainment is boredom, fatigue, and work. Those are some antonyms. The interesting thing is that since I became a christian I’m never really bored or in the need of a really “stimulating source of entertainment”. Don’t get me wrong,.video games are.fun and can be exhilarating but are they all the edifying?
I asked this question to myself and answer it before you.
Before I ever knew anything about Jesus Christ , I would spend many many hours playing games like World of Warcraft and Call of Duty but I didn’t get any fruit out of it towards my character. I eventually sold all my game systems and devoted my self to reading.
Reading has been a good source of getting out of my self and getting into a story ( my life is like a story and so is everybody’s).
Anyway, the main reason I asked the question is for my own “inventory” to see where I’m at with things. Like if I’m reaching certain goals or a vision I have put in front of me. Video games are really enjoyable but I only have so much time on this earth and my mind and spiritual growth (also body) won’t develope on its own.
There’s more that could be said.
Also, I’ve been reading the puritan theology book by Joel beetle and my hunger for Christ-centered reading is being satisfied with them…with the Bible of.course.
I read Magic City (the book you posted about) and that was a source of entertainment beyond words.
Please post more books that you would recommend.
Thanks
Anything by Edith Nesbit will be good (and free online).
I have been reading the Indian in the Cupboard series by Lynn Reid Banks with my kids and have enjoyed the first two books tremendously. We were able to get them at the library. I’d certainly recommend them.
Have you read The Lord of the Rings trilogy?
Yes I have to the Lord of the rings trilogy. I haven’t read the Indian cupboard series. Nor anything else of Edith Nesbit.
I really enjoyed Lord of the Rings. I actually looked forward to getting home to read the series….it is one of the greatest book series I have ever read.
If you have a library nearby they’re bound to have some Nesbit and the Indian in the Cupboard books. You might also like N.D. Wilson. I haven’t read his Ashtown Burials series, but I liked the 100 Cupboards trilogy.
If you’re looking for something outside of the realm of fantasy, it’s hard to miss with Charles Dickens.
I read G.K. Chestertons book ‘The last of the Great Men, Charles Dickens’ and by reading this it spurred me on to consider reading Charles Dickens works. Also by reading the book…it gave me a high respect for G.K. Chesterton. I didn’t read the whole book but I should of wrote down some of his quotes.
Anyway, I will definitely read some of these titles in the near future.
Also, G.K. Chesterton recommended reading Pickwick Papers first but which book would you recommend to read from Charles Dickens?
I’ve got to go with A Christmas Carol. It’s brilliant (and the book is way better than the movies). I also really, really like Hard Times. I haven’t read Pickwick; I need to.
Okay, I will keep that in mind.
I also get a blast out of reading P.G. Wodehouse Books with Bertie Wooster and Jeeves.
I was also wondering if you knew anything about laptops. I need to get one for this apprenticeship I’m hoping to get into and for the ability to work on my own blog because it will have a keyboard. I’m using my parents computer at the moment but a laptop would be beneficial. Do you have a laptop?
Yes, I have several, and I just broke one somehow. I have a ‘work’ laptop (with all my Bible programs and the like on it) and a general purpose laptop (for watching movies, etc), and my wife has a laptop.
I’m not big on buying expensive gadgets. I typically just buy one on sale (for the lowest price possible) at Wal Mart or Best Buy. I’ve never bought a dud even though I’ve bought them cheap.
The one thing I’d caution against is getting a ‘notebook.’ They don’t have much memory and so they tend to be slow.
Okay got it…no notebook= slow and expensive and cheap are both functioning computers.
This has narrowed my search a tad bit. I’ll have to do some research
Thanks Heath
If its not a notebook then what would it be? Many of these laptops say notebook with 4GB memory
If it has 4gb memory, that would probably be okay. But here are a couple of examples of low-cost laptops:
http://www.walmart.com/ip/HP-Black-15-f039wm-Laptop-PC-with-Intel-Celeron-N2830-Processor-4GB-Memory-500GB-Hard-Drive-and-Windows-8.1/38043712http://www.walmart.com/ip/HP-Black-15.6-15-f059wm-Laptop-PC-Bundle-with-Intel-Celeron-N2830-Processor-4GB-Memory-500GB-Hard-Drive-and-Windows-8.1/38043711
The only other thing to consider in the process is whether or not you’re going to need to be able to hook up the laptop to a tv (we do this a lot since we don’t have cable). If not, then something basic, like what I linked above, would probably work fine for you.
I messed up my links. Here’s another one: http://www.walmart.com/ip/HP-Black-15-f039wm-Laptop-PC-with-Intel-Celeron-N2830-Processor-4GB-Memory-500GB-Hard-Drive-and-Windows-8.1/38043712?action=product_interest&action_type=image&placement_id=irs_top&strategy=PWVUB&visitor_id=90793900094&category=0%3A3944%3A3951%3A132960&client_guid=afa779ab-0a2b-473e-ab9c-bd36d4b6ad1d&config_id=2&parent_item_id=38043711&guid=4adbba2b-30d9-4823-9cde-a024c70dcc97&bucket_id=irsbucketdefault&findingMethod=p13n
Okay, thanks